Intentional Rest

Most days are filled with responsibility – work, school, being a caregiver, extracurriculars, or commitments to our communities, and the list can go on and on. Often, true rest is only allowed, or we only allow ourselves to rest on holidays or vacation, and even then, it may not be a priority and it slips through the cracks. Responsibilities may habitually take priority over rest and that is why it is essential that we learn to incorporate rest into our routine. 

Being considerate of and engaging in rest that truly feels nurturing and rejuvenating is essential. What does rest in your life look like? Did you think of sleep? Many of us confuse sleep and rest as the same thing. When you think about rest, do you notice yourself trying to “fix” a lack of energy by getting more sleep; waking to discover you still feel exhausted? Sleep and rest are not the same thing. Considering how to intentionally rest in the context of the Five Dimensions of Wellness may be helpful for your overall well-being. 

Physical rest includes activities that release stress from your mind and tension from your body, restoring your overall energy. This type of rest can be passive or active; both passive and active rest can restore the mind and rejuvenate the body by increasing circulation, flexibility, and other beneficial bodily systems.

• Passive: Sleeping, napping, or simply settling into a comfortable position while shutting your eyes or softening your gaze. Anything where you can shut out distractions and settle into a deep, relaxing state.
• Active: Yoga, massage therapy, stretching, or deep breathing.

Emotional rest gives you the freedom to authentically express feelings and eliminate tendencies that do not support your emotional well-being.

• Expressing and processing your emotions with someone you trust or through creative outlets such as journaling or artwork.
• Practicing self-compassion and positive self-talk.
• Setting boundaries to eliminate people-pleasing behaviors or tendencies.

Social rest is meaningfully and authentically interacting with another person, where you leave the interaction feeling revived. This type of rest can include direct interactions, indirect interactions, or solitude.  

• Direct interactions include more actively engaged socialization and are longer in duration. A direct interaction may be sitting down to lunch with a close friend or having a one-on-one, heart to heart, phone call. When engaging in direct interactions, try considering how people make you feel before, during, and after you are with them. Try setting time aside to be with people who make you feel more relaxed and setting boundaries around your time for people who make you feel less relaxed.
• Indirect interactions include more passively engaged socialization and are shorter in duration. Indirect interaction may include going on a walk or gardening where you can wave to your neighbors or exchange brief pleasantries. 
• Solitude can also be recharging. Scheduling and embracing brief and undisturbed alone time may feel reenergizing as well.

Spiritual rest brings a deep feeling of calmness, peace, belonging, or purpose.

• Practice meditation.
• Connect to your values or religion. 
• Engage in activities that make you feel grounded – perhaps, a gentle nature walk or going sightseeing.

Intellectual rest reawakens and re-energizes by allowing us a break from active and intentional thinking.

• Take short breaks every two hours. 
• Create a task list to rest your memory.
• Give yourself permission to engage in something “unproductive”.
• Disengage from tasks that are stimulating or require quite a bit of brain power.
• Sensory Rest can also be beneficial in this dimension. Look around for a moment: 
• How many lights are on? 
• How many screens are in your view? 
• What do you hear? 

Whether you notice it or not, your senses are being stimulated most of the day. Unplug your electronics, turn off your lights, and find a quiet place to take a sensory break; allowing your conscious mind to rest. 

As we explore rest in the Five Dimensions of Wellness and become more intentional with how we engage with it, we can learn to improve our energy; in turn more effectively supporting our overall well-being.

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